Following Up After A First Date

After going out on a first date, you might hear very different opinions about what are appropriate ways for following up. Some friends might tell you that you should wait a few days after your date before following up. Rather than playing hard to get, others might tell you that you should consider following up with a small note as early as the day after your first date.

With such conflicting points of view, how can you figure out which advice is worth following? At Table for Six, we provide comprehensive dating advice and services in California. With our Just for Two matchmaking services, we provide a number of guaranteed introductions from a large network, giving you ample opportunities for second dates and more.

Protect Yourself When Following up after a First Date

If your first date went incredibly well, following up after it can be exciting. On the other hand, if there is no mutual interest and you contact your date hoping for more, you might feel awkward and mildly depressed when she turns you down. With Table for Six, we make the contact for you and give you helpful feedback, eliminating the most uncomfortable situations.

If you're new to an area, we can also help you meet eligible singles. You can connect with them through our group dinners and singles' events, setting the scene for first dates. If you meet someone in these settings with whom you would like to follow up, we also provide you with a number of options that ensure the privacy and respect of both parties.